Okay, so you know like in movies and like especially like romantic movies there was always this like cringe scenario where like one of the partner is like a married couple and one of the partner is like oh I knew straight away that you were the one and they expect that their partner felt the same and the other one is like oh really like I wasn't sure until like two years in or whatever but it begs the question like when did you know that your partner was the one. Like for me I actually knew pretty early on. Obviously I couldn't know for sure because I didn't know him but like I just had this like amazingly good feeling about him that I was like he must be uh kind of thing um so yeah let me know your stories like when did you know that your partner was the one.