One thing I've talked about with friends is like how and when you make your relationship official or exclusive. And I think there are so many different ways to go about this. Some people have the talk and decide that from this point on we're going to be a proper couple or official. Whereas some people, I feel like they don't have that conversation, they just sort of fall into that eventually anyway. So I personally wanted to ask, I knew we were both exclusive and I did feel like we were a couple, but for me, I just wanted that vocal reassurance, kind of that, yeah, it's true, we are kind of. So yeah, but how do you guys go about this? I'd be curious to know.

I love love love this question. So um how he asked me well I told him I was like no you have to ask me to be your girlfriend it's not just gonna be oh well I guess we're official like no put some thought behind it and he liked that I told him because no we're not doing all that so he asked me he bought me some flowers and like a little bear and was like will you be my girlfriend and And that's how it became official. And yeah, it was nice.

I do not understand the people who just all of a sudden are in a relationship. I have spoken to friends about this so many times. I've gotten in trouble. Well, I've had fights with previous partners because there's so many times. I'm even going to laugh at that because from actually the one I've been with the longest out of all my relationships, because I have to ask. I need a black and white kind of thing. Okay, I'm eating my girlfriend now.

You know it's very it's very funny because a lot of the times my relationships it's just kind of come down to that we've been dating for a while he do you want anyone else now I don't want anyone else grab me either Pretty pretty simple

So my boyfriend took me out to eat I think at Ruth Chris and then he had the waiter bring me a bouquet of flowers and in the flowers it said will you be my girlfriend if yes there was an envelope and if no there was another envelope and then what the F yes I got the key to the house and then on the dinner plate like when we order dessert it said congrats I thought it was gonna be you

Yeah picture of a panel is very cute you look really happy together I think that with making your relationship official it really comes down to at what point and I don't disappoint specific timewise but I will point you feel like you guys are so committed to dedicating yourselves solely to one another and labels like boyfriend and girlfriend et cetera I think I'm kind of less less and less important than the actual actions that you showed toward each other to show that you get a committed

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So the way me and my husband made our relationship official in the very beginning was he we were obsessed with the movie Deadpool that's kind of what we bonded over and he actually gave me a ring pop and asked me to be his girlfriend

I was never one that needed that vocal reassurance so it's all about our actions of partners that was it that's how I always looked at it we're partners forever

The relationship is only official when you ask, when you ask her to be your girlfriend.

To me, a relationship is not official until two people get married. It doesn't make sense to me to call a relationship official when it can still be ended by a text message or simply ghosting. What's official about that? You deciding to take yourself off the market for someone who is not married to you is not official. What's official about that? I really don't understand this proclivity for redefining words. Your relationship is by definition unofficial until you get married. are single until you are married.