people that can pour into me, I seem to be doing all the pouring out. So I had to stop that a few years ago. I had to cut that out. Just like you said in one of your messages, they just have to be a little boundary around me. Like I can't be the one giving all the time and you can be a user. So I stopped that. The Holy Spirit really guided me in the last couple of years. My life's done 360 degrees and I'm grateful to God. So the next step is if God brings people into my life that can enrich me, great. if not, then maybe I'll pay for a mentor. But you know, you're right with what is...