Okay last question I guess I'm on like the X series But um do you guys ever feel some type of way when your significant other is hit up by their X? um I feel like I used to only because I didn't well I did know but my husband is so freaking like his energy is so contagious and so So when people would check in on him, just making sure he's good and how things are with him, even just asking about us, it was like, okay, at first I was like, but now I'm like, yeah, tell them I said hi, there's no beef. So I don't know, I don't trip on that, used to, but I don't anymore. I feel like it was an insecurity though because of how my other relationships were dealing with cheaters, you know, but he's been so honest. So yeah, but what about you guys?

For me personally it's kind of funny like you thought be able to never do that So I guess it does kind of bother me.

It definitely bothers me and like why don't they mind their own business and have their own life

So past relationships, yes, that would bother me, but I'm trying to get in a habit of not being possessive over who I'm talking to or who I'm with So I'm working on that, but yeah, definitely used to bother me.

Not at all. Because at the end of the day, I married him. I have his last name. I have the ring on my finger. If she's got ulterior motives for why she's chit-chatting with him, I don't care because, honey, I won. And it's not even like a competition, but if it's a competition, I won. So what do I care what she has to say?

Probably because first of all why does your ex still have your number or like why do you have it saved in order to answer it so that would definitely bother me because I feel like you shouldn't be in contact with your exes even if it did end on my good terms I just wouldn't be comfortable because I don't do that with my exes

I'm gonna have to say that my gut is gonna play a part in that because there are innocent like yes they're still friends But like if there if your gut is going off, you know what I mean? Then there's a reason and then if they like if that person gets defensive and doesn't respect your feelings like pay attention to that for real, you know, just saying.

None of my girls have ever had an accent them up because they know better like we grown like they did I'm kicking that bitch out of the car

For me something I got kind of car mode

And like you said though, we are bringing things back to balance and so like I think that whole shift is Causing everyone to be like what the fuck like you know, but everything it has everything has to be balanced everything must be balanced, you know?