is your red flag. So I can identify that my red flag would be um I shut down sometimes like I just don't talk um when something is bothering me. Now I'm learning that I gotta do better with that, I can't do that with everything. So um I have been talking it out more especially with my husband but But yeah, that's my red flag. Definitely sucks admitting it, but you know, I think the best part is knowing that I am working on it, so yeah. Um, yeah, I want to know y'all's reflex. Let me know.

My big red flag is if you wanna FaceTime you talk to other motherfuckers I can't I can't deal with that shit are you coming outside but put it inside Purgatony sister side talk to your mom or your sister for me move you doing that shit for over 10:20 minutes bro I don't fuck with that because if I can get your attention will be on FaceTime how can I get your attention and keep them motherfucker while we in person and she's on some real shit

Mine is definitely if they start joking around about what I can or can't wear or who I can or can't talk to or see. red flank.

I feel like I've said this numerous times, I've answered this question numerous times. Big red flag for me? Hey, when you start bringing up star signs, I think I even know what a Capricorn is. A Capricorn, whatever the fuck that shit is. No.

Yeah I think marriage flag is the one I am upset with you all like when I am angry or things like this like when I have negative emotions and I just don't speak

And sometimes I cry like a wall and people for people it's harder to get through it and to speak again sometime

Oh, another one is if he can't communicate. Like if you tell me we going on a date on Wednesday and I don't hear from you on Wednesday, cut. Or if I don't hear from you on Thursday with a good excuse if I didn't hear from you on Wednesday. blocked

I actually have the exact same one. I think that especially when I'm like triggered or it's a difficult topic I tend to shut down a little bit and like not know what to say and like go quiet for a bit too long. So yeah for me it's definitely something I've been working on as well and yeah it's a tricky one when that's kind of what you're used to but yeah for sure it's good to identify them.