I think some people are just more emotionally secure and emotionally stable and regardless if they're in a relationship or not. So I think it's more about that and the depth of maturity and emotional connection that that person is able to have. Because I think that even single people can have like really deep connections and be really good at being mature and really...

They may have just not found the right one yet. So like my sister for example, she's divorced, although she's pretty young. So even if she's single now, she has a lot of experience that she could share and give advice and stuff. So yeah, it definitely depends on the person, I would say.

I agree with you a thousand percent. Um, I feel like whether the person is single or not, um, that doesn't deter me from taking like any kind of relationship advice. Just because, I mean, yeah, they're single, but they still, it doesn't limit their ability to share their own experience, um, whether they were in a relationship or what worked best for them at that time, you know?

I, um, you mentioned how your sister is divorced, but you would absolutely still take advice from her. Um, I, the first person that came to mind in my family was my brother. Um, he's not married or divorced. Um, he's always been single, but he has a lot of wisdom. Um, he's always had a lot of wisdom. Like, he's always been like an old man and like a youthful body. So, uh, you know, I would definitely take advice from him for sure.

And like you said too, like with my brother, he hasn't found the right person yet. And he's really cautious though too, so I think that's another thing. But I, yeah, I think it wouldn't be fair to limit them from any, like limit them from giving any advice, you know? So I completely agree with you.

Yeah, and of sure I think that your relationship status whether you single or taken or married I don't think should matter in this case I I think it's more about like the values that you share with that person like I maybe wouldn't take advice from a Person that I don't share their values or their way of thinking whether they're in a relationship or not Like if someone's in a relationship that I don't consider to be healthy I wouldn't want advice from them either. And someone else could be single.

and give much better advice just because they're sharing the same values and sharing the same way of thinking as me. They could obviously... Not everyone has to think the way I do. I like to be challenged, but like if the advice seems reasonable, I wouldn't care who said it. I would take it if it it like resonates with me. So yeah.

And that's very cool with your brother. I do like people that are like like an old soul soul and In a youthful body for sure. It's like where does all that wisdom come? It's pretty cool But yeah, no for sure like I don't think it should limit anyone to give advice just because you're maybe not in a relationship right now and Yeah, and I think Everyone should be able to give advice, but then it should be up to you if you want to take it or not depending on how you view that person in there.

And there are values, so yeah, definitely. It's a very cool question though. I like it.

Thank you, thank you, yeah. Um, no, yeah, I definitely agree with what you said too. People could be in a relationship and give like the worst kind of advice just because they love the toxic life and then you can find someone who is single and is like, okay, so they've been through some stuff. So I completely agree with you there. a thousand percent.

So sorry if it sounds like I'm yelling, but no, I get what you're saying where, you know, you there's a reason why they're single. But you never know that person's situation. Maybe they got cheated on and they know their worth, you know, so I don't know. I mean, I'm not fully opposed to it, but I also completely still get your point on like, okay, what did they do in their relationship? But also, you know, people learn. learn.

Great, people can definitely be hypocrites and it's definitely annoying but I definitely agree with you. I would still take the advice of a single person. You never know what wisdom they have, you know, about relationships or marriage even, what they would have done differently and what would have maybe worked better. so for sure.

you a thousand percent because yeah I mean like you said it's it offers a fresh perspective outside of the relationship but also you never know what they have to offer like they definitely could have something that that you never thought of or that your partner never thought of. So yeah, for sure.

I love that you brought up this. I was thinking this as well where it's like, oh well are they gonna be biased or you know so you brought up really good points for sure. I think it just ultimately also depends on who you trust talking to if they are single and what they've I guess disclosed to you in the past. It really just depends you know and some people they may have wisdom on in that area but you never know.

I do like that. Yes. Thank you for sharing this. Once it's a fresh perspective in your relationship, you know, and hopefully it's not biased. Like, you know, hopefully friends are being biased towards, you know, obviously their friends. But yeah, no, I completely agree.

And I was just gonna say I feel like single people really do have a lot to offer when You know giving relationship advice when they are single my brother gives them really great advice He's been single for like ever it seems like but it's like They're able to see things that you aren't able to see they're not blinded by love or whatever the fucking case is you know? So yeah.

And I was just gonna say I feel like single people really do have a lot to offer when You know giving relationship advice when they are single my brother gives them really great advice He's been single for like ever it seems like but it's like They're able to see things that you aren't able to see they're not blinded by love or whatever the fucking case is you know? So yeah.

Yes, that part. You never know why people are, I guess, single. If they choose to be single, whether it was something that they went through with the past relationship. So yeah, for sure, I agree with you.

Okay, I like how you broke that down into two different kinds of single people because, yes, absolutely agree with you there. I feel like, uh, yeah, the toxic single people, nah, I would never take advice from them. But the people that are single because they for one choose to be and they've learned from their past relationships or or whatever, of course, yeah.