Okay, so I have my last question Do you guys ever confide in your family or friends when you and your partner argue? so personal experience I'm saying no, I don't Me and my partner we've never argued. We definitely have disagreements, but we communicate very effectively I've learned though in my past that when you confide in your family or your friends about you know something that your partner has done wrong, they definitely for one will judge, but also it's harder for them to forgive your partner whereas you know you forgiving them. So I don't know for me I don't. I feel like, you know, when you have effective communication, it definitely is better. But if you can get an unbiased person, like a therapist, to talk to about whatever issue is going on, I think that's the better option. Once again, that's just my opinion, but chime in, let me know.

This is a great question I think me and my partner agree that we don't bring outside people into our relationship as far as like being a competent we try to solve our problems within ourselves as much as possible

I also recommend a couple therapist because not necessarily like when your relationship is too far gone it's more so like preventative measures and just to also have like a mediator that is

This is a super interesting question and I think for me I I confide first and foremost in my partner and we don't argue either and our communication is super effective.

I'll be talking shit to myself to be honest because I don't got no friends other than that I'll be talking to my boy best friend and he just don't be listening for real but he's there

No never because it might give you an advice and a minor follow up on it or do you know what am I tell me the wrong thing so I just put him on intuition and talk to my partner instead think that's much healthier