Comparison is vital. That is how you find the right one. All the time I have to reprogram women to understand that a man's ability to be with you without comparison to other men is a husband privilege. If a man has not married you then stop being his wife.

I focus on women only because I teach women a different path to marriage. I've never navigated the world as a man, so I don't feel qualified to teach men how to navigate the world as men.