Listen relationships are not easy in fact a lot of people tell you the hard work starts when you get married not getting married and it's very true so make sure when something comes to cross you make a very hard and Earnest decision whether to work on it or leave now the longer you've been with someone the more reason to stay in the relationship and work on it And if it's a dealbreaker but hopefully you're making the right decision because once you end it it's final and too many of us are run first mentality so know the difference between a dealbreaker and something you can work through and make better

I agree. I'm actually watching a couple now mending their relationship. They were close to filing for divorce. We're almost done with the papers for divorce and now they are mending their relationship. So you gotta know what works out for you and what doesn't work for you so I definitely do a great job.

I really appreciate you bringing this up because there are so many people, myself included, who at one point in time needed to hear this. So again, I thank you for bringing it up and you know, I really hope that someone right now who may be considering these options really hears you out because like you said when you end the relationship that's final.