Don't please other people because they want you to. Please them because you want to. Don't bend over backwards for no one who won't bend over backwards for you. I mean have some respect, learn self-love, learn self-preservation. Just because people out here that say they care about you and love you, that don't mean they do. Words is words. Actions speak louder than words. So if they don't prove their loyalty, then they don't care. Then words don't mean a thing. It's their actions. Their actions will speak for itself. So if you've been in a situation where you dealt with someone who claimed they love you, tell them to prove it. Otherwise beat it.