I think what she's trying to say is, you should identify as a trans woman and not like a woman. Like you should have trans in there, and not just woman.

None of it makes sense to me, but the point is you're supposed to be supportive. There's nothing to complain about. It doesn't make sense. You're there to support them while they're trying to figure shit out. If they figured it out, support them. If they haven't, support them. If they say they're transgender, support them. If they say they don't think they're a woman or that transgender women aren't women, support them. There's no point in judgment. If you're going to judge, you might as well be candid.

Not really. She's probably talking about how she's not a biological woman. So she's not a woman, but she is a woman. Just not biologically. I don't know where you got lost in that.

The reality of it is, you can't get upset at them for their own interpretation of their sexuality. That's the whole point. I understand that you're trying to be a strong ally, but at the same time, if that's their interpretation of it, then that's their interpretation of it. Just like there are Christians who believe in science, and there are some who find it absolutely demonic. People like that exist. And at the end of the day, it is up for self-interpretation, and you can't judge them for their own interpretation of that, baby. You gotta just give them a pat on the back and say, you're right. Two plus two equals fish, and I agree.

i don't get your confusion i really don't um yeah she's a trans woman she's not a woman because she is a trans woman it means she is not a woman like what is what is there not to understand she was not born a woman she had to go through a transition to become a woman therefore she's not a woman she is a trans woman like definitions matter people