Seriously though, you are not responsible for other people's moods or behaviors. You're not. No one is responsible for yours and you're not responsible for theirs. They need to take responsibility for themselves and work on improvement. And if you're dating someone who's not working on improving themselves, I mean, I guess you do you, but that doesn't sound like a good thing, keep that in mind. And if you constantly feel like you're being held responsible for that, that's a toxic relationship, that's not healthy, that's abuse. Just seek help when you can, when you feel safe, and get out. And if you constantly find yourself in those types of relationships, situations, things like that, I recommend seeing a therapist and trying to work through that, because it's seriously my biggest motto in life. Life is too fucking short. Live it to the fullest. Only include people in your life that are going to improve it. And add positivity, you know? Life's too short.