do you think that is okay at all for a man to hit a woman or get physically violent with her or call her names I just really want to know you know what other people experience I've been in a relationship for seven years

This is- this is just my take, but I don't think no one should be hitting each other at all. If you have a problem in your relationship, then you should be talking to each other like mature adults and not children. That's in the fourth grade, hitting each other because you guys disagree with something. But if a woman hits a man, then he has every right to defend himself because you shouldn't be laying your hands on a man. And the other way around, you know?

Hey, I don't know about you, but for me, that shit is normal. It's normal, so to answer your question, yes.