A man. You need someone by your side that is solid, that's going to hold you down when you can't hold yourself down. As a matter of fact, when they can lift you up when you are struggling to lift yourself up.

Now, is that a green flag in you or is that a green flag that you've seen in someone else or that you want to have in someone else.

Definitely meeting someone that can read you and understand you can help you adjust and maneuver through life with such subtle words or movements is a game changer.

In my life it's been both. I've been able to express that and be that way for someone. I was a safety nut and then I've had a healthy platonic relationship where they were able to be the same way for me. It took practice please believe but it was definitely worth the payoff.

Herd, herd, well, my respect for you taking the time and self-awareness to articulate yourself and be patient with yourself and others to get to that level.

Oh, wee! Well man, if the guys know what you're talking about, get with the guys!