Um, I don't know if I can believe that, sis, but if I was you, I would just kind of just tell your sister or like kind of see how she be moving and see how you can maybe act like her and see what it is, why men are drawn to her, but in the end of the day, you shouldn't even be focusing on a man. They should just come to you naturally. That's just, that's just God helping you letting you know that you, you avoiding and eliminating some fuck boys. So a real man is going to notice you from a distance and no matter how far it is.