I'm obviously making a rough generalization, and this does not stretch for all women. This is just the average of what you're talking about.

He doesn't necessarily have to be society. It can be inner family bonds as well. The environment that you grow up in can be more patriarchal than others.

And yes, there are a lot of women that are doing great things and still care about people. So there's all types of people. So rough generalization. That's just my opinion. But times have changed so much. I don't feel like there's a lot of pressure, but that's just me though.

I'll speak for myself. I don't feel the pressure to please a man. I'm just myself. And I just need to be myself. And yeah, I think pleasing comes from wanting.

I think pleasing comes from wanting to genuinely please. I would definitely want to genuinely please someone because you love them or they're a good friend of yours, but I don't feel any pressure. But this is just my opinion on what I feel about pressure. I feel no pressure.

There is a strong desire for relationship goals among a lot of women. Not every woman. But I feel there's a strong desire for relationship goals, whatever that ideal relationship that is for that person.

So I'm a while away. So the reason why I was asking is because my sister just, oh her husband cheated on her. Now she is actually blaming herself more than the husband. She keeps saying...

And then, you know, down the road then that generalization, I know I'm saying that a lot, but that turns to a stereotype. And then, you know, a stereotype is like, that's the nail in the coffin for us, you know, it's just...

I don't know, I just think we pigeonhole our minds by thinking that everybody does this, everybody does that, or they do this, they do that. It's just not about that. It's about each individual every day doing what they do, and you have to look at it on that level.

And I think you may even be surprised to see or to know that how many men actually put themselves under extreme pressure to please a woman. So, it does go both ways. It's all just fucked up and that's all.