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Hey, beautiful. It's your queer boy, King Alcaraz and your fairy godmother. Today's sound **** is Is it healthy in a relationship to follow your significant other on social media platforms and watch their stories?
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I was dating this guy who had tons of red flags and I was really begging for his attention and his love So I created this anxious attachment styles Which was fucking not good because...
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Literally, like I was so obsessed with him that I would tend to, you know, stalk his followers, his followings and it was getting so toxic that I became so obsessive which was so bad.
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So I learned that the hard way that I should have been more obsessive about myself because I definitely lost myself towards the whole relationship and that guy had fucking red flags so fuck like
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I think a healthy relationship is when you feel secured and I do agree with Naomi ends and like you don't get obsessively like stalker vibes because that ain't it honey that ain't it.
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I mean, yeah, why wouldn't you? I mean, if you don't, that's kind of weird. I don't know, I find it like a strange question.
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Like energy, so what kind of energy they bring, what other energy they like to be around or surround themselves with so that it does not clash with you and your choice of people that you choose.
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Alright, alright, settle down children, listen to your very gay godmother. So I think if we're following our significant others in all social media platforms and watching their stories, it really is hard to follow.
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I think it makes it hard for the relationship to have things to talk about if your significant other or you are constantly watching everything they do. I feel like that's why it's important to have a sense of privacy.
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To me, I really think it depends on your personality. If you feel secure about yourself or the relationship, and I don't think it's a problem, and I really think that you have a good relationship.
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Thank you for your question Fairy Gay Godmother. Yes, I think if it's there, why not? Because it's really interesting to see their online persona versus their offline persona.
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Thinking of this question indicates that you are not in a healthy relationship. So if we are in a healthy relationship, that will be totally ok to add each other on social media.
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Sorry, I don't understand who you is referred to, but I'm just mostly asking this question just out of curiosity, not from a personal standpoint.
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Yeah, don't worry, I know that. I was speaking out of my personal experience.
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I think it's healthy for sure. As long as you're using it in the right ways and you have boundaries, social media can be a positive thing. But yeah, I've had a partner overstep using social media before and it can get kind of annoying.
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I think it's healthy to follow your significant other on social media platforms. As long as you guys have communication and with that communication both parties are very open about it.
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Communication definitely plays a big part. Especially when you are getting to know someone and you're falling for them really quickly. You just want to know what kind of energy they bring.
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