Which at the time made me super depressed, obviously, you know, who doesn't get a little heartbroken, but that man is now my husband because he realized it don't get better than me. So it worked out.

Oh girl, he realized he made a big mistake, huh?

I am gagged right now. That's how you do it. I just want to know what did he have to say and do to get you back, girl?

You know what they say about that girl karma.

Oh hell no. How do you just not come home? Honestly, you dodged a bullet, babe.

I'm so sorry that happened. It's almost like we have intuition and can see where this is going and because they don't want to end things right away they're like let's do long distance but long distance is so hard.

You have to be a very specific type of person to do long distance. Like, I have a girlfriend who does have a long distance boyfriend, and they do make it work very well.

She lives in Brighton and he lives in like the Czech Republic? Like, he's not in the same country but he's not a far flight away but that's a big commitment for somebody who isn't even on the same island as you.

And they make it work because my friend is a recluse. She doesn't really socialise with anybody else. And I guess he's the same, so they just socialise with each other. And that's just how they make it work, because they don't really see anybody else.

Girl, that's what I'm saying. I mean for me, I didn't take the The fact that we broke up so bad is just the fact that you texted me like fucking man the fuck up

Girl, that is what I'm saying about intuition and I feel like my intuition is always spot-on But then I don't know if it's just me being picky and all that my best friend says I'm picky So I do try to give people a chance and that's why I've been single for so long. I don't-

Having boundaries is one thing, but being super picky is another. It can actually trip you up if you are super picky. What I do is I don't have a type. If I like you where I like you, then I think that's a healthy mentality.

to have because then you're not setting yourself up to fail um but i mean i don't know you have just i'm just going off what what you said but if you're aware you're really picky you should try and lower your standards

I definitely have my boundaries. I wouldn't say I'm picky because I also know what I bring to the table. Yeah so it's definitely boundaries and especially when you could spot those things you're not going to put up with.

ma'am wait what he added you to a call was it a facetime what did he say I am so sorry what is wrong with these guys you

Yeah, it was a FaceTime and that was one night and he told me that I'm just gonna sleep because I have to work tomorrow and I'm like, yeah, okay, sure. And then 3am I found ringing only to find out that it was him and other chick video calling me. But 3am I found ringing only to find out that it was him and other chick video calling me.

So he was equal with him her and then they added me I don't think it was an accident though because my phone was ringing for a long time I didn't answer straight away and when I picked it up they were just laughing.