Hyran, so far your advice is the best.

I'm not even kidding. This is real. Like I moved out as soon as they were getting so toxic and after like a year or so like their whole personality changed they've gone so much better.

I 100% agree with this one right here.

Oh man, I wish I were you man. Um, you know, I didn't take the opportunity to go to college when I was 18 21 now So kind of a little bit stuck here. If you know what I mean can't run away. That's too stupid I don't got the money yet to go anywhere. So I just gotta wait

Boundaries as to say like whenever I feel upset about something with them, I tend to get into my own space you know just do what I love and Do what I want to do and be what I am and you

Like just remember to always always remember to focus on yourself as well Be it career or relationships or whatever just focus on yourself Build up whatever it is that you need to build up for yourself

Hi Jerry, my situation is kind of different because my parents are dependent on me financially and whenever I decide for a house.

Ah, now I understand. Okay. Well, in that case, I agree with Ren's advice. You should run, and run away, and never return. Okay, I'm kidding about the never return part.

Hey Maria, yes you're right. I often feel guilty whenever I think of leaving them or running out. But I also need to think about myself.

I also need to think about my health and specifically my mental health. I'm just torn whenever I think about it.

Hi, Beloit. Yes, I live with my parents and toxic means they're kind of dependent on me in terms of finances and not just that like this is

And not just that, I mean also with the decision making in our household so because I'm the first born so yeah.

Oh okay that makes sense and I feel like a lot of cultures I feel like the bread winner is always gonna be the oldest and like the decision-maker and that is pretty tough.

It all comes down to it's up to you. You'll have to choose your happiness or your parents' happiness and even though you are the provider you do have to speak with them and let them know your thoughts.

And then plan a strategy on you know how to But it's always good on Leaving things at good terms with your parents and then your parents will now have to decide to like You get up and start providing for themselves as well

It sounds really selfish but your parents were the ones that are supposed to take care of you until you leave or until you go out into the new world. But it's holding you back kind of.

Now I know this is easier said than done because some people are still living with their parents or are minors. In that case, you just have to wait until you're able to leave that toxic environment. But just because somebody birthed you does not mean that they can disrespect you. That's so important.

It's important to remember that them giving you a roof or clothing or food that is basics, you don't need to applaud them for that basic behavior because they had you, okay? You didn't ask to be here, they put you here. So that's just basic.

I grew up with narcissistic family members and abusive family members. So it's important that whenever they make you feel upset, not to have an emotional reaction to that, because that's what they're looking for. They're looking to upset you. So learn how to calm yourself and those type of hearts.