So this is for ladies or men I would actually see both sides of this because I personally just don't understand it and maybe that's just my laid-back attitude so I'm a tomboy I have a lot of guy friends you know I play the video games with a watch anime to hang out with them all the 9 yards I have that's been my friendship life since as long as it space is open like a kid so I just never understood why Women that date men get very insecure when they say hey I do have a close friend that is a girl I feel that it's just very insecure especially when they meet the girl or they see a picture of them then they get jealous because of how they look and what not I have you know two friends in particular that have girlfriends like that where they literally will tell me oh we can't hang out we can't do anything because my girls jealous of how close we are and I never understand it and usually the reasons why I here is like oh she's really pretty and cute I don't like the way you guys laugh with each other which is like what the fuck does that mean I was like oh you guys might like you don't hook up a rash just like No no it's like I don't see any of my close guy friends as a potential hook up if I did we probably would've already done that but they they're in the bro category for life probably like in my eyes I don't really look at my friends that are that close to me that a guy is like oh I'm gonna fuck you you know it's just not how I perceive things so I just need clarification because I have one close friend that's literally doing this right now and it hurts because we have to like step back because she's so insecure about how close our relationship is