And in her head it's probably on me it's my fault I should be the one to reach out I'm the one who did something wrong even though she really really wronged me and my family

Hi, so I know you don't need my advice or anything, but going up the clips you sent me, she obviously doesn't feel the need to reach out because she thinks the problem is at your end and not at hers. So I would say just give it a little bit more time so she can re-evaluate everything and actually start seeing what she did wrong and not you. But I hope you're doing okay and your family's doing okay.

That's relatable. I cut contact with my mom almost four years ago now when I was 18 and she has not tried to reach out since and I cut her off because she has abused me most of my life and she has like no self-awareness and doesn't like to own up to things and like sublime me for everything so I understand your frustrations.

So I know you don't need any advice or insight, but why not look at this from your mom's perspective? She's probably just scared you're going to develop an eating disorder or you're going to lead yourself into anorexia. Remember, we never understand why mothers are like this or even fathers are like this, but they're just trying to look out for you. even though you might not understand why, but probably just trust her. and tell her you're full and you don't want to eat more.

Hi, so I'm going off the template you sent me, so why not try cutting it off slowly? Because watching porn consistently is going to hurt your brain actually after a long while, so it's really unhealthy and I know it's natural, it is obviously natural, but only a little at a time. So please pace yourself and try to stop.