If it's not working be honest with yourself that is not working and have the conversation do not wait to blame somebody later I think a lot of us wait to blame somebody later and then things don't happen the way it needs to happen and we got to stop doing it

I had to do this. Once I learned how to actually start being way more honest with myself, it allowed for me to be way more honest with the last relationship that I was in and it allowed for me to communicate better and let him know like what I was happy in and what areas I wasn't happy in. So yeah.