Yeah, I think I probably agree with you and yeah, it depends on You know who your partner isn't who what their customs are you on? Yeah, I just want to mesh with whatever they're doing, but yeah I mean I've introduced people to parents too early and then it's just like Constant questions and you know if things don't work out and it's like oh what happened to them Oh, are you still seeing them? Oh, and you're just like oh But, you know, it's not bad, but, you know, so now I'm like, I'll wait a little bit.