Both of my brothers died in the span of three years and the person who had them, one was adopted which was my half brother and the other one was my full-blooded brother who died before. This woman will not give me ashes to the brother that just passed and my full-blooded brother was buried and cremated without any feeling to how I felt. They decided what to do with him without any regard to me. And then my half-brother, I just asked for ashes and she said that she doesn't want to be threatened, which I've never threatened her before, and I wanted the ashes for me. So what do you guys think?