I mean if people don't respect me like that's on them. I like don't lose sleep over it anymore I think maybe I used to when I was younger, but like I know that like I'm my authentic self and if like people Don't want to talk through any issues they have with me Then like I don't want their respect if that makes sense You know, it's because like life to life's too short and like life is long though, right? So like you have to forgive people and keep going but you also like you don't have to choose who you you don't have to be around