So what is up my stereo family this is diamond 718 here so when you're dating writing so this goes for men and women so on when you're dating do you talk about marriage when you first meet the person like you know because lotta married for like 13 years now so it's been a while since I've been on a dating scene but When do you even bring up the topic of marriage like is it the first week is it the first day for a couple of days do you wait until your relationship starts to get serious but when do you actually bring it up because I just feel like if you wait to bring it up and then one of the parties say well I don't want to get married then it's like I feel like you've wasted your time but if you bring it up at the beginning of just meeting someone then you can know like what you're a mentor you know and I don't feel like is it means that you're trying to move too fast I just feel like hey say what you want and want what you say you know what I mean that way no one's feelings are hurt along the line no one Elm and you're not wasting each one another time so When do you actually discuss the topic of marriage if you discuss it at all try my guys

I feel like you start talking about marriage after like a year like where are we going what are we doing I'm a bring it up once from that answer I'm a gauge your your reaction other than that I think that year one year do you need to be like so what we doing because it's been two years and I don't know what's going on

I mean, I think you should get a grasp of where they're at if they want marriage or not within the first couple of dates talking to them, casually bringing it up. But it's really about quality of time, not time frame. So a year could go by, you could only see them once a week. it's not really enough time.