So last week me and my friend went to a restaurant and it was really nice seeing her because I haven't seen her in a long while and then I realize that she had kept texting on her cell phone and it was irritating me because I'm like who are you texting so she told me she was texting her boyfriend and she was getting angered because he wasn't replying fast enough to her message and I was trying to talk to her and tell her that it's OK maybe he's busy maybe he's working you know you never know what people can be doing in real life but she was getting upset and she was so bothered to the fact where she was like when I get home I'm not cooking no meals for him he's gonna have to cook for himself and she thought of it as a little punishment towards her boyfriend And I was kind of annoyed because I was just trying to have a conversation with her and she will not even give me five seconds of iContact so this is where it comes in the question that I want to ask do you get bothered when your partner doesn't reply fast enough to your messages for me and wouldn't bother me because you know I'll be busy throughout my whole day so I expect to know that my boyfriend is going to be busy to working school whatever he may be doing so what are you guys think about this question let me know in the comments

See, I get upset when like I know for a fact my husband ain't doing shit and I text him to ask him something and he's just like he's literally on TikTok and he's so stuck on TikTok that he's seen the message and then forgot about it. That's when I get upset. But other than that like I know things go on you have work or you're doing something.

I don't really get upset. I know that he's busy doing something or he's gaming with his friends or whatever and he'll reply to me when he does. If he misses one of my messages, he does apologise and I'm okay with that. I'm not completely glued to my phone nor is my partner.

When it comes to communication, I am a needy bitch. I'm gonna need a good morning text and a good night text, and I'm gonna need to know what you're buying at the store. And when people irritate you in traffic, I want him to text me all the fucking time.

No, I don't get bothered. I just wait until I get a text back and and just wait for her response.

That sounds like a nightmare, I would've just got up and left, but it depends. It depends on the situation, I guess. But right now I'm not in a relationship and I'm saying, no, I wouldn't really care. I don't really care, to be honest. But that could change. I don't know.

Wow there's some codependent shit right here I've got to tell you guys if you have any of this in your make up and your elk in your mess please try and work on yourselves because this kind of need will destroy any relationship you have trust relax it's you it's not them so fix it yeah with all of bye

I can sometimes get bothered when my partner doesn't reply fast just because they tend to be on the phone a lot because they run a business which means they have to be on their phones but I also understand that like they run a business or sometimes like they're super busy so they can't necessarily be on their phone so honestly just depends on how needy I'm feeling that day

Yeah I can't know if if you get a bottle for someone to reply to force just so you know you know did you have something to do during the day I could give her enough you know sometimes even find the text message I don't have that text I instantly back relax chill out I don't text you know do you have is if you can send a text to every single message you will be nothing the whole day

Actually no it doesn't bother me I think it's fine because I know my spouse is working and doing his own thing and I know I take forever to respond back so I know he'll eventually respond unless he's by himself and I know he's out then it's like whatever

As somebody who works on their phone and doesn't have a traditional job I work for myself I'm a very good Texter because I have my phone in my hand I've dated people who haven't been and it's weird for me because I don't get it but it's not a big deal you don't always have to be texting