What was the most challenging thing growing up with one or more siblings and how has that affected your relationship with them today and you see the same patterns in your kids I when since I'm the oldest it's just me and my sister are used to get jealous a lot because everyone treated her so much better "" and I did she always got the attention since she's like three years younger than me and I found it very difficult because I would get punished a lot and I see that pattern with my kids today because my son is four years older than his sister and I don't want that to continue so I'm like trying my hardest to give them both attention and my sister and I have a relatively good relationship sometimes you know as siblings we fight and bigger and what not but overall it's good let me know what about you