I don't think older actually equates to being mature I think men who are older tried to pay like they are mature but from my experience they have a lot of growing to do I just think it's the person their personal experience however like I mention before I do gravitate more to younger man come across much more mature than when I am dealing with an older guy Sia

This is something that I have to drill into women's heads when they want to date older successful men and by the way I am not talking about some sugar baby looking craziness with something reasonable You need to go ahead and do your inner work and get yourself together these younger guys They will tolerate your bull-ish, but these older guys Especially the ones that you want to marry and give children to and live the easy life with girl They ain't, they ain't having it, no. They ain't about it.

Now if you can pull older men, then the perks, the perks, girl, your standards can be through the roof in a way that they cannot be if you are dating men your age or younger. So let's say that you are 30 and you're open to dating a 45 year old girl, you can require him to be gorgeous. You can require him to have an eight pack. You can require him to have a full head of hair. You can require him to be healthy. You can require him to be successful. And you do have to do your part. You You have to be able to pull him, but you have to do a lot less to pull him. And that's the point.

A mistake women commonly make because they received their edumacation from the University of TikTok is focusing way too much on their appearance. Yes, you need to mind your appearance, but the type of man that you want to marry is not looking for a trophy wife, so you can't spend all of this time on the outside and no time on the inside, which is where you really need to be spending your time. So yes, you do need to do what you need to do to look like a polished diamond instead of a diamond in the rough, but after that all you have to do is look at him. the fact that you're clearly younger and interested is enough to grab his attention.

I don't really agree with that I don't think being older equates to maturity and I don't think if you attract those types of men make something wrong with you it doesn't I think sorry each to their own at the end of day people gonna act how they wanna act regardless but I have found that you know young men just do it for me and they come with more My opinion

Okay, so I'm a bit confused about what you're responding to because I never even implied that age guarantees maturity level. Nevertheless, surely you acknowledge that the average older man is more mature than the average younger man, right? That most older men are more mature than most younger men, right? So if you are unable to pull an older man with even an average maturity level, that is because your maturity level is not where it needs to be to pull them.

Again, that's not an insult and I'm not saying that there's something wrong with you because your maturity level is not 10, 15, or 20 years ahead of you. But if you are trying to attract older men who are worth their salt and get them to take you seriously, then your maturity level does have to be much higher than average. Otherwise, the only types of older men you're going to attract are the ones who are incredibly mature for their age because they're the only ones who are on your level.

Yeah I understand why I remembered say older because allegedly we are Muna grow quicker and mature quicker than they do but from my experience I found that the young guys are they are quite ahead and when it comes like finances maturity they are where have the same age peers or older cat like all the pets if any sense yeah

What's your beef with younger man I actually think younger men keep me excited I'm quite a spontaneous also I like that that energy I think old are meant for me they just seen not seen but they come across so serious like everything is so serious but yeah

Congratulations on your engagement honey thank you for sleeping pattern but I am I like I literally resonated with the bit where they are kinder and sweetheart you are absolutely right I've literally dealt with younger guys who are just so empathetic and 17 with their emotions and then I just compare it to the old a lot and I'm just like you guys have a lot of healing and a lot of work to do but yeah I definitely prefer younger

Thank you for that answer. It was short and sweet.

John you've had a point where I am like this is such a thing a man would say you said younger equating looks why not and before dating apps existed men prefer younger because of this Just saying but obviously yeah I think organically me I attract younger men organically I don't yeah so I get what you're saying