Talk about how much kids you want on a first date or like at the beginning of a relationship because a lot of people have seen say that's a way to really just like talk about marriage and kids and all that stuff on the first date but me personally I feel like isn't it good to ask those questions that way you know when you agree or disagree on such a big topic that way it doesn't have to continue further than one day you know you don't have to waste any time if you already know agree on you know having no kids or just having kids or something like that No, in fact leave this idea at the time that you're wasting and not also be questioning the answers by the end of the first date, this is not about women's dating lives. These women conduct four interviews on first dates and can't figure out whether or not they can submit dates. The purpose of your first date is to determine if you like this guy's vibe, his energy, and that's the best that I've been in like-hearted, chill environment. You guys can be once kids at this point. It's just the first date. Yeah, I'm not wasting my time going on a date. Just to look for a vibe, I feel like that's a stupidest phrase anyone can say. So what I do is I just ask the important questions because if those answers disagree with any of mine, there's no point in having the second date. So that's why I ask those questions. Yeah, I know it yourself, I wish. It's no surprise that you have no clue about how healthy, satisfied we are since it starts. And because you think that this critical step is not only stupid, but it was the time that you are well on your way to be one of the main women who are miserably married to men who take all their boxes. You, like so many other women who've broken my date, think that a first date is an appropriate time for us this evening, and you pick me into the curb if you don't want my to be your husband because you think that dating them otherwise is a waste of time. But then again, that really speaks to the caliber of man that you choose to date. I am not updating a judge, a police chief, a tax attorney, or a business man with 300 employees, and think that doing so is a waste of time. As women, dating for us is not simply about finding our husbands, but also about expanding our networks because through dating, especially through online dating, we have access to a myriad of high-powered men that we wouldn't have access to otherwise. One of the things that you do will be your husband. Let him find you. In the meantime, stop dating the types of men who are a waste of time to really get around and expand your network. Mind you, I'm not advising you to date these men on, but to build photonic connections with them. This is what dating is. You should not be dating the types of men that you want to come up with just because they don't pass your husband's reign. This is my new proceeding you may be stolen by a date. For all you know, one of those men introduces you to the man you've been marrying.

Let me be clear and I do plan on making a sound **** about this eventually But I am okay with talking about certain things But the implication here is that I'm interviewing the guy on the first date or ever and I don't Don't do that.