I agree with you there. I feel like it just, it definitely does depend on where you are at in your life because even 19 for me is like, but like I said, I want to also be clear to no judgment here on what you think. Like I want you to express, you know, what you feel. Um, but yeah, no, I've, I don't know. It's just for me, I think experience goes such a long way. Um, and I know, you know, mentally women kind of mature or forced to mature faster, Yeah.