I think a lesson in life is with people that you learned that on your inside is what you see on the outside so you know yesterday I am tired today yeah and the reason why I'm tired is Internet shell I work with hotels right now I work for a hostile company that creates share room experiences for travelers and rooms the beds are $17 a night they share the room So yesterday I had a challenge with a guest that kind of drained my energy today and some thing I have learned through that is you have to pull yourself back in your energy because If you're fighting with the person or if your challenge of the person which I was that I was just like I need you to leave please and call the police and what not but if I connect with that that is something I need to look at within me it does me no justice appointment finger at anyone else and it's a lesson we learn with people especially when fighting with people if you think about it self-care is not Letting your self feel defensive or taking a step away from the individual if you love yourself love the situation and love your way through it

I definitely relate to this one. I feel like it comes up a lot when I come into online spaces like here on stereo or on TikTok where there's rooms full of people just yelling over each other and I take a step back because I don't want to give my energy to it.

I like that. A hostile company. A hostile company? An aggressive company? Are they being combative towards you? Or a hostile- I feel like there's a joke in there somewhere.

Listening to learn goes a long way and whatever something is brought up by somebody else in you, that means something about you. So totally self-reflection.

You are right, Brad. It is not worth arguing with someone or fighting with someone over. It's just a waste of your energy and they don't deserve your energy. And they don't deserve your peace. So, you know...