Two can't walk together unless they agree. Can't have an unequally yoked household. It won't work. If it do work, it'll just work for a little while. Eventually it won't work, because somebody has to make the ultimate choice of who y'all serving. And it should be the man. But hey. And also, you should be serving the most time, which you seem like you're already on the right path because you keep the Sabbath, but you got to find out how to love such as the commitments as well. As long as y'all both doing.