See people for who they actually are and give them a chance to be themselves. What I'm saying is this, we often try to push and project our opinion on other people. But when we do that, we're not giving them a chance to even say who they are, prove who they are, show who they are. So instead of using the time to communicate with people as a means to try to prove a point, just take a chance real quick take some time and listen listen to learn listen to learn that person because little do you know if you're just listening for your own self-interest so you're just waiting for the next moment to speak you're not even doing the conversation justice you're missing out on a good person off the strength of listening for what you want like communication to me is built on more than just listening for what you want out of a person. Communication for me is an opportunity to experience another human being's walk of life. Like, an opportunity to really get a chance to know who they are if they align, or honestly if they're just an amazing individual that you want to enjoy and just enjoy their presence. Legit. You don't have to, we don't have to always look to be the most impressive part of the conversation. nor do we have to always be the person that controls the intention of the conversation just enjoy it just enjoy the fact that you have a human being that's willing to listen to you just enjoy the fact you have someone that actually cares about your opinion and what you have to say but be mindful that the conversation is more than you just speaking it's a back and forth you know not a speech