Absolutely not. A woman of value is a woman of value.

No, a woman of value is just a woman of value based on how a particular man sees her as being able to help him get through all kinds of different things.

I think this is less about the woman herself and more about the men who are approaching her if- so first of all, a woman is valued, period should be valued, period but if a man is trying to approach her and she has kids or she doesn't have kids that depends on what he's looking for if he- if she has kids and he thinks she has less value, that's not the man for her if she has kids and he's like, boom, I'm about to be a stepdaddy

then period, that's the one for her