And I do agree that the most male identified, I got hair on my chest, in, boobs, type of mentality, umm, the most male identified thing that I've seen is where people or another woman will pretend to know sexual things about another woman. And it's like to try to devalue another woman. But that's my whole thing. If you feel like you got it like this, you should feel so good about your vagina that you don't focus on other women's vagina. There's no way you should take your focus off yourself at all to press somebody else. because it's like, it's almost like you, you're scared that they're going to be attractive to other people. I don't fear anybody's level of attraction to anybody. And there's like the whole difference. I'm not trying to stop you from doing anything. I do not care about you at all. So it's like, maybe that means that I'm not like a male identified woman because I'm not interested in belittling a woman based off of what I think of her vagina. Because I'm not thinking about her vagina and i don't really feel like that's a way to devalue another woman now there's jokes and stuff that can be told or whatever just naturally so but when you are actually trying to pretend like you know another woman sexually that you don't that's gross yeah peace and love