Usually when we get into relationships, it's usually fast, you know, one after the next. We tend to forget that. We have to take time for ourselves, analyze ourself, and heal from what hurt us. Usually people come into our life and they leave emotional baggage on us and pain. We need to take time and heal so that you don't hurt anybody else that you come in relationships with, so that you don't bleed on people who didn't cut you. If you never heal from what hurts you, you'll bleed on people who didn't cut you, on people who did nothing to you.

Wow, this reminds me of what I did after I broke up with my ex-fiance years ago. That's one thing that really tripped me up because one thing I did when I moved out after she caught me, well it was a long story, but after she kicked me out, which I was gonna leave anyway, I started reading and researching everything astrologically that went right, and what went wrong. Amazing.

The name of the book that I actually, um, picked up was called Planets in Caposite, which is by, I think his name is Robert Pelletier. When you take that one chart after merging, uh, your chart with another person's chart, basically, and you figure out exactly what happened, and what's going on, and what has been going on throughout your relationship, and the possible pitfalls, the highs and lows, ups and downs, etc., and I found out a lot of shit, and I didn't feel bad anymore.