Yeah, cause women, like, literally, like, for, like, basically in history, when women get married, they kind of lose their sense of self Like, I look at my mom, I'm like, bro, her hobbies, her everything has just been slowly squeezed into taking care of the family Which, that sounds horrifying, imagine everything you're interested in, your hobby, your everything That whole thing, you have to throw it out because of living with your family And some people find it as an honor, but that scares me a lot, cause my personality is everything to me