There's another public service announcement for all of the stereo newbies the new people are joining this application the reason someone will invite you up to join the panel is if they like your energy or if you have something meaningful and worthwhile to add to the conversation I've seen too many people join a talk as a listener and immediately start pressuring the host to let them up if you've done this you have a significant misunderstanding of the way stereo works a host will invite you up for two main reasons either they like your energy or they have gathered that you have some experience or knowledge that will make their conversation with you valuable My advice to you here is to take a different approach listen first then talk that's why you have two ears and one mouse the bottom line is don't ask to join the panel until you have proven that you have something to add to the conversation

Oh shut the fuck up. You see all they need is a punch and they grow the fuck up. Yeah, one punch at a time.

OK so typically for me when I do a talk and somebody wants to come up like I actually always ask them please Lake send a message because I wanna be able to hear your voice because I can pick up on tones and that's how I can figure out how old they are

So for me I don't ever ask hey put me up there I do know that I just listen like you say with my two ears I listen and then if I hear something funny I laugh or if I have a question or ask you know

Are usually I would like to go to my wormhole and weed out the trolls and the kids yeah you heard me

Oh, here you go. I love all of these.

Excellent, excellent. Seriously, I wish they would make these into modules like Stereo 101.

That's not always the case or the art panels were they have front of people and completely roasted them we have to be very considerate of all the different options that are here you know we kept in touch if you don't I can't know we can't do THA but because you know what

Okay, so tell me this thing, how come every time I scroll to one of the talks, man, and I'm just listening? Like, I'm not even trying to get in. They always, always trying to put me in. Like I don't even know, I just get put in.

This is a good advice, very smart. And this is good advice. Thank you.