3K comments | Trinity Mitchell on Instagram: "Three things I’ve done to evaluate what I mean to friends: 1. Pay attention to HOW they show up for me. Performative gestures are a real thing. Some people come to say they came but don’t value who you are as a person. Read the room. 2. I don’t place myself in their lives before they place me. Yes, people should model and validate what they want the relationship to be. Stop claiming the girls as sisters before they model sisterly behavior. When you go in with no discernment, people will take advantage of your desire to be accepted! 3. Once I realize that a person isn’t willing to ...