I don't know how you can be so certain that she's not looking for validation, because the main thing of, if you're posting pictures and you're putting something out there, you can't make that claim that it's just for you, because just for you would be on your phone. So the moment that you publish it, it's open to the public for their opinion, right? And people don't post things for others to have bad opinions about them, hence why this woman is upset, you know, about being called certain things.