So I want you guys to hear about what happened to this girl and what you would do if you were in her situation so basically she's been dating her boyfriend for a good amount of time and She accidentally found out that he was gonna propose because she found the ring Now if you were her would you tell him that you know that he's gonna propose and that you found the ring? or would you just act surprised when the proposal happens because I'm kind of torn between this because I Feel like you just kind of ruined it because you know what the ring looks like Because if he planned it behind your back and was like trying to you know, have it be like one big pleasant surprise I would want him to know that I know But at the same time it's like he obviously put in all that effort for it to be special and then That's the way you found out. So I Feel like he would be crushed if I knew about it I don't know. Oh dang. What do you guys think?

If that was me, and if I was in her place, I would not tell him. I would just act surprised, because I would not want to hurt his feelings. I don't want him to say, hey, look, I just ain't feeling this. It would break his heart, ruin the whole surprise. So I would just pretend that I don't know nothing, and just act surprised. And then, maybe years later, just tell him, look, I have to confess, and just, you know, just... I don't...

okay so first of all um he's trying to surprise you or propose to you and if you accidentally found the ring or something i mean don't sabotage your own proposal don't ruin it for him i mean because he's trying to do something for you you know like so sometimes girls just have to learn to keep their mouths shut and just let them do their thing so they can have their moment for you you know

I would never ever tell them, like proposing is such a big deal like it's it's it's a big event so me acting like I'm surprised wouldn't hurt anyone like I mean knowing beforehand it's okay I mean it's not a big deal I'm getting married to my partner so it's all good he doesn't have to know

Now, think about it. Honesty, or lie? Which one is better? If it's somebody that took time, you know, in, you know, things that they prepared to have a life with you. If you've seen it, you told them because, like, you're just being surprised by seeing the ring already, so I think, be honest.

yeah I would tell him but like then that would ruin the surprise and then he may think like but at the same time it I would feel good because then he chose me you get what I'm saying

well i would not tell him because he kind of like putting a lot of effort in it and that was just really a surprise i mean i will tell him but like not right away you know after some time like you know like after some time i was just at surprise during that moment but then afterwards like probably a few weeks a month i'm gonna tell him that i found a ring

I would, like, act surprised, because, I mean, the ring itself, you might have ruined the surprise for yourself, but there might be, like, other ways where you'd get surprised, you know? So if you tell him, it could hinder any plan- further plans that he has planned, you know? And, like, let's say if it was going on a vacation, or, like, or on a really nice restaurant, or whatever, you know? But if you just act surprised, I mean, you- you'd save him.