um yes so that was offensive but i'm thinking because it took her so long to kind of spit it out like maybe that's not what she really meant when she said you know the lack of under i was thinking she was gonna say understanding from when she was younger but surprise was not

Hold up, wasn't he asking her what was her biggest regret, and she said the lack of understanding of black people? I hope she meant like her lack of understanding to understand black people. I hope that's what she meant, because if she just, you know, went to like, yeah, like just the lack of understanding of black people, like, yeah, that wouldn't have made any sense. So again, hopefully she meant her lack of understanding for black people, and she wish you understand more, you know.