I don't know. I wouldn't give a damn if you look like Quasimodo. If you're not interested in the motherfucker that's in your DMs, tell them to kick rocks. And if they try to down you because of that, then... ***** YOU ALREADY WOULD!
On the flip side, I've definitely said no thank you to someone who is like dangerously attractive. Like if you're too attractive, that's a red flag. That's a red flag for me.
Oh man, I have definitely done the same. I look at you and I'm like, you two fine. Nope, we gonna be friends because I'm not about to be another notch under your belt.
Yeah, I think it depends on the person and like the vibe though. Some people they give other people a chance But at other times they be like no But you know, it's You're right to feel the way that you feel especially someone trying to hit you up and you're not feeling it Yeah, you don't have to do that
No, but for real I'm just asking this question because Why do people feel like people have to settle because of how they look? No, that's just not the case Like don't ever settle for nobody because they ain't gonna treat you right.
You could clearly say how you feel about the situation, but like, hey, I'm not into talking to anyone, especially if you're not interested in that individual. You'd be like, yeah, I'm not feeling it. So, hey, I see what you're trying to do though, but you have a good one, you know? You can be respectful now, they try to come with you in some type of way.
They try to come with you some time away, they don't give them energy, you know, you just leave that alone. You just be like, you know what? I'm leaving the situation, whether you block them, you know, or if you guys are following each other, you won't follow. But yeah, it's not worth it. You just go about your business.
Oh, nah, well, this didn't happen to me personally. This derived from a talk that I was listening to when a dude said that BBW should never leave him on red or he gonna be mad.
That's crazy. People and their expectations and standards. And some of it just be unrealistic. That's crazy. But it is what it is. You know, they be in their own world, doing their own thing. Hey, we can't decipher what's going on in their head.
Hey fam hey so I feel like everybody has their own taste. If you don't like me, cool. Somebody else like me. You know what I'm saying? You know if you feel like your standards ain't the same as mine then cool.
And you right, you don't have to settle, but you also know that you got options, baby. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Actually, no, it really don't. You know what I'm saying? It's about what's all this, it's mostly this inside that should be worried about and then outside. I like to say it, broody song is...
The fact that this person is in your DMs in the first place, what does that say about them when they decide to disrespect you because you're not interested in them? You always have a choice. Don't let these fools tell you otherwise.
no matter what, you should be able to have boundaries, and if somebody is in your messages doing something that you don't like, it doesn't matter how you look, if you don't want them in your DMs, you can tell them no. you can tell them get out.
but on the flip side, i've had some nice looking people hop in my dms, try to get freaky, and then when i turn them down because i'm in a relationship they then insult me and uh say some mean things but they thought that i was cute before so why