Hello, I just really want to know why it's okay for a woman to be vulnerable and be weak and show they sad side or we cry, but when men do it, it's uh, oh being a man and grow up and take charge. I don't understand that.

The best thing is to feel what you feel and not care what no one else feels. If you believe in a nurturing man and a nurturing woman, which I do, then you love that and all that true.

I think the best thing to do is practice empathy and compassion and give more understanding to either sex, to be more masculine quote unquote, or more feminine or more vulnerable quote unquote.

I think we all know the answer to this. We all know the answer. The minute we open our mouths and reveal our secrets will be the last day we should have opened our mouths.

I think that, I think it's gonna, I think we gotta do a little bit more work before a man should just unveil his self like that cuz um yeah.

The world where we tell men to be more emotionally intelligent. In the world where we tell men to stop being so toxic. In the world where we tell men to be more loving and caring. And then when men tell you about how they feel, you tell them, shut the fuck up, you're bashing women.

I believe now there is a shift change with men being vulnerable. I find that this is from watching a lot of podcasts and just seeing what's happened post pandemic with mental health and people getting into therapy now. I'm seeing-

Hold up, hold up. Since when is being vulnerable weak? That's a toxic trait to think about. Ain't no vulnerability weak. That's very strong to be vulnerable to somebody, because if you're not, then you're hiding. You're hiding.

Men can be more vulnerable. I know a lot of men that are. It's just that, stop looking at them like they're a different kind of person. We all have feelings, so why can't we show them?

The moment you confide in them, the moment you decide to trust her for that one moment in time, when the situation pop up, she decides to pull that shit out her ass. Now, who's looking like a fool?

is that vulnerability is a big fat lie. All humans are vulnerable. The only difference is some people know how to use vulnerability to their advantage.