If you don't like this feeling of feeling like someone's hiding something from you when you're being honest, if you are, then you need to approach them. And that takes you getting over that fear of approaching them.

Get over that fear of what may happen if you approach him and say, I don't like how I'm feeling because of blank. And if he can't make you feel better or if he isn't giving you an answer that you can be okay with,

Then that's where you have to decide do I want to live with this? If you can be at peace with what he gives you when you approach him, then it ain't going to work.

But what I think actually is and what I think most likely with people is when you approach them honestly and you're vulnerable with them, they tend to reciprocate and they'll be vulnerable with you. And you might learn something new about the both of y'all that could be better.

So in conclusion, if somebody's being funny with you, just approach them with reality. Approach them with truth. Approach them with you being honest. And you'll get the real version that you need to see.