okay I actually agree with you Ash that's controlling not caring and that kind of relationship it won't last definitely based on the issue yeah so it's just controlling.

Now this though Ash, because one of my past partners, I've had multiple dreams that they're cheating on me and lo and behold they were.

Oh yeah, I've been there. I've totally been there. And what's funny is what I found with like my husband, I was not attracted to him at first. Like he, because subconsciously you're attracted to the dysfunction that you've known in your past.

And so he essentially challenged everything that I thought that I knew about love. And I'm so thankful that I was like, you know what? I'd need to try something different.

And I did and it has been such a crazy amazing transformation I have never been love like this before that anyways so yeah but I hear ya I follow your gut because it's in your dreams or your God it's true

Yeah, I actually agree with you Elisa. That's controlling, not scaring and that kind of love cannot last long because there is trust issues yeah and we think if you are respawns.

Okay that's great that's great I actually agree with you you can't survive with someone who is so much controlling You just keep on suffocating in that relationship you better walk away Yeah, and we thank you for your response. Enjoy your time.

Exactly, Ruan, you're right. I think that's controlling not caring. Yeah.

So you mean like if you have stayed with someone for long, there's no problem with checking on their phone. You're just not checking to check on message. You're checking if they are talking to someone else. Yeah, so what will you call that? Is it controlling or caring?

Exactly bro, I think that's controlling. Yeah If you as long as you trust someone, I think there's no need to keep on checking on their phone you just keep the trust you have on them yeah

Okay, I totally agree with you doctor. I think it's controlling because if you trust someone or you trust someone why should you keep on checking on there for I think it's just being controlling yeah and we thank you for your response bro

Okay, okay bro, I respect your opinion. Anyway, thank you for your response.

You are saying it's controlling not caring

okay great I think you make sense yeah it's just controlling why should you keep checking on your partner's phone doesn't make sense if you trust them Yeah.