It could only be because you don't have anything better to focus on. Shift your focus to something better. Then you'll realize that all this time you've just been wasting on somebody who didn't even deserve it. Simple.

I truly believe that helps because it's a shitty situation to be in and I can relate to that. I got over it pretty quickly with its logic.

Life is meant to be abundant and that simply implies that focusing on one person, especially one that doesn't even deserve it, isn't worth it. Just get over it. There are so many other things. Life is meant to be abundant and that simply implies that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply means that simply

I'll show one more example because I think it makes a lot of sense. See, when you're poor, you just could afford one second-hand car. That's the only car and you give it all, I mean all of your love and attention and...

whatever happens to a car if something wrong happens let's say a dent or something something bad it hurts but a person is living in abundance let's say a big business person right

let's say a business tycoon he is 20 and he's buying more he has won all the top models best cars in the world Rolls Royce and Ferrari

Lamborghini's, you know, he has private jets, he has yachts, he has so many other things, he doesn't even know where his cars are, it doesn't even matter to him, he's in the process.

He is in the process of buying some more, right? This new Bugatti just came out. It's going after that. And it's also interested in, let's say, a Bentley.

not only cars he's also buying jets this new jet jetliner this came out is going after that as well she's looking forward in his future right that's what I meant

That's the moral of the story. Look ahead, don't look back, live in abundance. Especially if the person didn't even deserve it. Forget it. Forget the person. Right. Get new friends.

I know it seems like an absolute fucking heartache and a nightmare right now, but you will get over it. You just have to stop entertaining the idea in your head. If you catch yourself thinking about them, like actively try to stop, you know?

I would advise anyone in the situation to protect themselves as much as they can. Try not to think about this person, entertain this person, give your energy away to this person. Once you do that, see how they respond to you, right? Maybe that they've taken advantage of the attention, love, affection that you give. Once you retrieve that, retract that, you can see how they respond to you.

See how they respond are they more interested in you now that you're not showing so much interest in them because that's the thing That's common with women right or are they just going about their business if that's the case you have to let it go It's no longer serving you choose yourself.