Genuinely how do people like do on and off relationships like I don't know how people have the time or the patience for that or how you can even like somebody for that long like like how do you after the first breakup like maybe I can understand the second but after the second like after I break up two times how is it even possible for you to keep getting back together like what are you doing I genuinely don't understand like how does the conversation after the breakup go or do you all just like make up like if so how do you even do that

There's a saying that says that people can do anything that makes you want to leave, but then they know how to say anything that'll make you want to stay. I think a lot of people have a technique of just pulling on certain heart strings of an individual that'll keep bringing them right back in every time.

I'm not gonna lie, I don't see how people have the time either because I mean some people are toxic and they got used to their like Last relationship that they've been in that was on and off but me personally I couldn't do it I can't go back and forth with people.

I think it depends on how the person treats you, so if you're like off and on on how the person treats you, that's different. But if you're off and on, mostly off and then like on for like a long time and then off because maybe you have to get some stuff together. Kind of understand, but-

Other than it being toxic, I don't really see the point of really getting back together. Honestly, I'm not- I'm- P the fifth, I've gotten back together with two toxic exes and I may be toxic too, so I can't say anything but it's not really worth it.

And then sometimes like it is worth it because you needed to learn a lesson that you didn't learn the first time. And I learned a great amount of things with both exes. They were both really great in dating, but sometimes you need to learn stuff.

Because people are dumbasses, that's why.

Because first thing I do is play the clarinet and then play the clarinet

Oh yeah, good question. How they work is, well, we break up and usually she'd be like, don't talk to other people, but in reality I do and I fuck hella fat motherfuckers and and then I come back saying I ain't do shit. So I like it.