Like someone who says that they are polyamorous I don't understand how before you're even in the relationship you can say that you want to be with multiple people is like It once you're with somebody and you love them and you feel like you're attracted to other people like I guess maybe but don't you think there could be something wrong with the relationship then or I I feel like either way it just seems like you just want multiple

Maybe I could understand like being with a bunch of different people and then finding the right one and Then marrying that person But I really don't understand just saying like I want multiple boyfriends and girlfriends Like I don't understand how you could love all of them and be able to give energy to all of them and have them still feel loved and like they are accepted by you.

That's not a poly relationship. So I would say do your research on it first because that's not a poly relationship relationship. It's never just one sided.

I have multiple friends who are poly and hearing their point of views of not seeing love as control or ownership, you know, like not being controlling of like, you can only love me. It's like, I get it, I get it. You know, free love, one love, everybody love them. It's just I prefer monogamous type relationships because I want to hold down a secure foundation with one person. I want to grow with them. many.